My life is full of changes at the moment. A lot of them. So, 5 years ago I was a rich teenager who was moaning about life and basicly everything all the time. I was in total rebellion towards everything in life, especially the society. I still hate the society I was born and raised in to be honest, they are a bunch of sheep!
So in these 5 years, my dad goes bankrupt we basicly sell everything in our hands and I try to live the normal life. In this post I want to talk about the pros and cos of bankruptcy!
These five years have been the hardest of my life. I cannot say that I hated every moment of it, but time has taken a lot from me. The feelings I lost, the numbness in my heart never seems to get away, but I got used to it. I had breakdowns at certain points and I have done mistakes because I lost control at some points, but the lessons I have learnt in life, they are very precious for me. I realised that the love inside me is so big for my family that I even was succesful overcoming my anger towards my dad. I stopped asking why things happened and instead I looked for solutions. In my perspective, I am doing good. I am dealing very well with situations. At times I do get sad because some of my dreams are lost and I will never be able to achieve them and I am not living my "dream life", but this encourages me more to try. And if anyone reading this has gone through same kind of stuff, I can assure you that it's not the millions in your bank account which defines you, ITS YOU! You can achieve anything you want and overcome everything! I am not the one to write these motivation things, but I really mean it. As a person who spent 1/4th of their life hating everyone and blaming her father for everything, I honestly think that my only harm was to myself, not anyone else..
- You get to know which people matter really. Those standing by your side in every condition are actually the people who are worth your love.
- You get to know how to stand on your own feet! You get out of your kookoo world and you fight for what you want instead of crying for it.
-You actually realise the cars and cribs and bags and those shit are not actually that important. Its all luxury.
-You UNITE! That's the best thing about it. Family becomes one, and everyone over-cares for each other which is a really sweet thing.
-You become more independent as you have less things to lose. Trust me, the less things you have to lose, the more free you feel inside.
-The things you own are not used to describe you anymore so you become an actual individual not the person who owns that and this.
- Realising that the world actually does not revolve around you, you are like a droplet in the ocean.
-Managing anger.
Bankruptcy was really a hard blow in your family. Well, it was tough indeed, but I’m happy to hear that you were grateful for that situation because you discovered who truly cares for your family. You must be thankful for those people who were there on your side when you’re going through that hard situation. Bankruptcy had taught you a lot of lessons, and I know that you became stronger and more responsible after going through it.
ReplyDeleteAllan Morais
I have just seen this.. Thank you very much. I think I am overcoming them slowly.
DeleteGoing through bankruptcy is indeed a big challenge to one's life. It is during those times that you realize how important managing your finances is. It's hard, but sometimes, it's the only way you can learn. I know that after what happened, you were able to ponder about many things. All the lessons you've mentioned here are true. I hope that you always keep these in mind, so you can have a brighter future ahead. :)
ReplyDeleteJadenAllred@TorontoBankruptcyAdvice.com